We're building the world's most respectful space for ethical non-monogamy. No judgment. No shame. Just authentic connections between consenting adults.
For too long, people interested in ethical non-monogamy have been forced to use apps designed for something else entirely. They've been judged, misunderstood, and made to feel like their relationship style is somehow "less than."
We started 3soul because we believe that's bullshit.
Whether you're a couple exploring together, a single person interested in joining couples, or someone navigating polyamory—you deserve a platform that understands your needs and treats you with respect.
Every interaction on 3soul is rooted in clear, enthusiastic consent. We've built features that make it easy to communicate boundaries and respect them.
Your dating life is your business. Incognito mode, photo blurring, and granular privacy controls give you complete control over your visibility.
Singles aren't second-class citizens here. We've built 3soul so that everyone—couples and individuals alike—has equal standing and respect.
We don't reward thirst traps and gym selfies. Our platform is designed for genuine connection, not ego validation.
Through our Journal and community resources, we help people navigate ENM thoughtfully and ethically. Knowledge makes better connections.
Harassment, hate speech, and predatory behavior have no place here. Our moderation team acts swiftly and decisively.
3soul was born from frustration.
Our founders were part of the ENM community for years before starting this company. They watched friends struggle with apps that treated them as second-class users. They saw couples get banned for "violating community guidelines" that were never designed for non-monogamy. They experienced firsthand how mainstream dating apps fail people with alternative relationship styles.
So they built something better.
Since launching, 3soul has grown to over 2 million users across 50+ countries. We've facilitated millions of matches, thousands of successful triads, and countless meaningful connections.
But we're just getting started. Our vision is a world where ethical non-monogamy is understood, accepted, and supported—not judged or hidden. We're building the tools to make that world possible.
Our team includes people from the ENM community—people who understand the challenges because they've lived them. We don't just build for you; we build for us.
Co-Founder & CEO
Co-Founder & CTO
Head of Community
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