JOURNAL

Advice • 6 min read

How to Write a Couple's Profile That Actually Gets Responses

Your profile is probably why you're not getting matches. Here's what we changed that tripled our response rate.

Education • 10 min read

ENM 101: What Ethical Non-Monogamy Actually Means

Polyamory, open relationships, swinging—what's the difference and which one is right for you? A therapist breaks it down.

Ethics • 9 min read

The Problem With Unicorn Hunting (And What To Do Instead)

As someone who's been the 'unicorn,' let me explain why that term makes me cringe—and how couples can do better.

City Guide • 8 min read

Where to Find Threesomes in NYC: A Local's Guide

From Brooklyn warehouse parties to Manhattan's discreet members clubs—here's where NYC's ENM community actually hangs out.

Guide • 12 min read

First Time Couple Looking for a Third? Read This First

We've been there. Here's everything we wish someone had told us before our first threesome—the good, the awkward, and the unexpectedly emotional.